Nov 5, - Three brave couples reveal the impact of mismatched libidos on their marriages. ‘Not tonight darling,’ she told Stacey, her husband of 12 years. When she told him her desire for sex was, by contrast, very low, he promised to ‘love her whatever’. Apr 23, - My partner of seven years would like me to go out and have sex with other men. He says he wants me to do whatever I like as long as I come back to him, and never leave him. Wanting to see your partner (wife, really - I've never heard of this from a woman) have My partner has terrible dress sense.